Choosing a secondary school for your child is one of the most defining decisions you will ever make as a parent. Beyond academics, the school environment plays a critical role in shaping values, confidence, life skills, and future opportunities. In Nigeria especially, where the quality of education varies widely across public, private, and mission schools, parents cannot afford to make emotional or hurried choices. Asking the right questions ensures that you do not just pick a school with fancy buildings or glossy brochures, but one that aligns with your child’s learning style, aspirations, and your family’s values. Yet, many parents approach this decision with incomplete information, relying on glossy brochures, word of mouth, or the promises of school administrators. The truth is, every school presents itself as excellent, but excellence must be tested with the right questions. Parents who fail to probe beyond surface impressions often end up dissatisfied, sometimes discovering too late that their child has been placed in a system that does not align with their values, expectations, or the child’s unique needs. Here are ten crucial questions that every parent should ask before entrusting their child to a secondary school:
1. What is the school’s philosophy of education?
Every school has a vision and mission, whether stated or implied. Some schools prioritise academics above all else, while others integrate character development, entrepreneurship, or religious instruction. Asking about the school’s philosophy helps you understand whether it aligns with your family’s expectations. For instance, if a school emphasises critical thinking and creativity, but you prefer strong discipline and structure, there may be a mismatch in values.
2. What curriculum does the school run?
Nigeria has multiple curriculum options: WAEC/NECO, British IGCSE, American, Montessori-influenced, and blended curricula. A parent must ask if the school prepares students for local examinations only or provides international pathways. This decision affects future opportunities, whether your child will be better positioned for Nigerian universities or international higher education. You also need to check the level of their use of technology. Technology is now very important and you cannot afford for your child to miss out in the global stage.
3. How qualified and experienced are the teachers?
Teachers are the heartbeat of any school. A well-qualified and passionate teacher can make the difference between a struggling child and a thriving one. Ask about the minimum qualifications required for teaching staff, ongoing professional development, and staff retention rates. A school that invests in teacher training signals a commitment to excellence.
4. What is the student-teacher ratio?
Numbers matter in education. A class of 50 students cannot receive the same level of individual attention as a class of 20. Smaller class sizes usually mean that teachers can identify strengths and weaknesses early, offer tailored support, and build stronger relationships with students.
5. What facilities are available beyond classrooms?
Education today goes beyond textbooks. A school’s facilities; laboratories, libraries, ICT centres, sports fields, music studios, art rooms, and even counselling units are vital to a child’s holistic development. Parents should tour the school and assess whether these facilities are functional, safe, and accessible, not just displayed on a brochure.
6. How does the school handle discipline and student welfare?
Discipline policies vary widely. Some schools adopt strict zero-tolerance rules; others favour restorative discipline approaches. Ask about bullying policies, mental health support, and how conflicts are resolved. A good school balances firm discipline with empathy, ensuring children feel safe and supported.
7. What is the school’s track record in academic performance?
Past results often indicate consistency. Look at WAEC, NECO, IGCSE, or other external exam results over the last five years. Beyond exam scores, ask about university admissions and scholarship awards. A strong academic track record demonstrates that the school’s teaching methods deliver results.
8. What co-curricular and extracurricular activities are offered?
Children thrive when they have opportunities outside the classroom. From debate clubs, coding classes, and science fairs to sports, drama, and music, extracurricular activities develop confidence, teamwork, and leadership. Parents should ask how seriously the school integrates these activities into the student’s timetable.
9. How strong is the school’s parent-teacher engagement?
A school is not just an institution, it’s a community. Strong collaboration between parents and teachers ensures that children get consistent support both at home and in school. Ask if the school has regular parent-teacher meetings, open communication channels, and transparent reporting systems.
10. What is the true cost of education in the school?
School fees go beyond tuition. Parents must consider hidden costs such as uniforms, textbooks, laboratory fees, boarding, excursions, and extracurricular charges. Some schools offer scholarships or flexible payment plans, while others do not. Understanding the financial commitment upfront prevents future frustrations.
